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Single parent : Single motherA single parent is a parent with one or more children, who is neither married, nor living together with his or her spouses. Single mothers are far more common than single fathers. The definition of single parents may vary according to local laws of nations or provinces. But in typical cases, she or he may be so after her divorce, after giving birth to a child outside marriage, or after his or her spouse died. Some single mothers may have chosen to be so voluntarily but for some others it is the result of accidental pregnancy, while not wanting, or not having the opportunity for abortion, and not wanting, or not having the opportunity for marrying or living together. Financial problems or other social circumstances often play a role. Especially in the US, teenage single mothers have become a serious social issue (see also teenage pregnancy). This phenomenon has become one of the serious social issues in advanced countries. A single father is less common because, after divorce, more often the woman gets custody of the children, and in the case the mother has no (longer) a relationship with the father, it is even more likely that the child will stay with the mother; the father may even be out of view. A single father is considered much less commonly a social issue and gets far less support from governments. The typical case of turning into single fathers is probably his wife died or disappeared in other ways. Sometimes, when a woman is pregnant, she and the father of the child feel the need to marry, or to marry earlier than planned, to avoid the shame and the legal complications of being a single mother. This is sometimes referred to as a "forced marriage". It has become more common in Japan and the United States because couples over there usually feel they have little reason to get married.
Single mothers in fiction
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Take the thanks of a boy.
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Gird me with Thy sword
Thee would I serve if I might;
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Breathing in grosser clay,
Delight of men in the fray,
From pain, strife, wrong to be free,
Take my spirit to Thee.
A BOY'S SONG
WITH lifted feet, hands still,
Dart, with heedful mind;
Till the heart with a mighty lift
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'Is this, is this your joy?
For a golden moment share
In a world that is full of bliss?
Steel-shod to the level ground.
Speed slackens now, I float
Till, when the wheels scarce crawl,
Must end in a vale; but still,
Shall find wings waiting there.
Whose fame unblown
For ever and aye;
For her who hears
Go by on the wind
Of the needs of spring,
Or winter's chill;
For one who sees
As he wanders a-cold
Is a woven part
Of whirling snow;
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Douglas Hyde. b. 1861
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How the waves of it roll!
And the love of my soul!
Abandon'd, forsaken,
Will the sea ever waken
Would he and I were,
Or County of Clare!
Were I and my darling--
On board of the ship
All last night I lay,
With the heat of the day.
And my Love came behind me,
His breast to my bosom,
Arthur Christopher Benson. b. 1862
859. The Phoenix
BY feathers green, across Casbeen
By gems he strew'd in waste and wood,
They stand beside the fruitful pyre,
The impulsive bird forgets his sire.
Those ashes shine like ruby wine,
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